74. What Matters Most: A Medically Complex Adult Reflects on Childhood & Parental Love

Every parent of a medically complex child wonders: Will my child grow up knowing how deeply they are loved? Will they appreciate how hard I fought for them? In this episode, we bring you a powerful answer straight from someone who’s been there.

Annelise Frazier, born with a rare and complex medical condition, shares her story of growing up with surgeries, complications, and hospital stays—but more importantly, growing up surrounded by love. She reflects on the biggest gift her parents gave her: they loved her so boldly and advocated so fiercely that she never felt different or defined by her diagnosis. Instead, she felt like a kid—just a kid—who was deeply cherished.

For parents in the thick of this journey, this episode is a glimpse into the future—a message of reassurance that your child will remember the love more than the fear, the joy more than the hardships. Annelise’s perspective will remind you that your love and advocacy are not just necessary, but transformative.

Join Ashlyn & Ashley for this heartwarming conversation that will uplift and encourage you to keep going, keep loving, and keep believing in the beautiful life ahead for your child. *Spoiler, Annelise has the same condition as Ashlyn & Ashley’s daughters!

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Annelise Frazier is a small town bookstore owner diagnosed with Classic Bladder Exstrophy, Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, Ehlers Danlos Syndrome and Mast Cell Activation. She has been chronically ill since birth, but does not let that define her. She loves reading romance novels, baking allergy friendly treats, spending time with her family and raising her pet cat Fig and rescue Border Collie, Hollie. When not at her bookstore, she and her husband enjoy traveling the country searching for the greatest history museums. Annelise has spoken out for children with disabilities at many conferences and intends on using her background in medical research to provide a safe space for all those struggling with the daily life of medical complexities. 

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